On the bookshelf, #29

The Buffalo Soldier, by Chris Bohjalian

Guilt. Grief. Depression. Hope. Redemption. Promise. This story has all the human elements that make Chris Bohjalian’s novels such wonderful reads.

This is the story of Terry and Laura Sheldon, who lost their twin nine-year-old daughters in a flash flood that swept them off a local bridge. The depths of despair that this couple find themselves in are almost insurmountable. But in one last effort to reclaim some joy, they decide to welcome a foster child into their home. It is autumn, almost two years since the death of their girls, but Alfred isn’t exactly what they had in mind when they agreed to take in a child. He’s quiet, reserved, unhappy and a veteran of the state’s foster care program. In short, he isn’t like their girls at all.

Terry and Laura try to bond with the boy at first but it is the older gentleman across the road who reaches him first. Paul Hebert is a retired college professor and instinctively knows how to talk to Alfred, make him feel comfortable, and become his friend. It is Paul who teaches Alfred, an African American child, about the Buffalo Soldiers, America’s black calvary men. It is also Paul who enlists Alfred as his partner when he decides to buy a horse and the two spend mornings and afternoons together, riding, mucking out the stall, and grooming the horse.

It is a good thing for Alfred that he has someone like Paul in his life because Laura and Terry are finding their marriage unraveling. In a few short months, Terry has begun an affair, found out that his girlfriend is pregnant, and moved out of the house. With Terry away, Laura and Alfred’s relationship grows strong and soon they realize that they are meant to be mother and son…with or without Terry in the family.

The book ends with a few dramatic moments involving a second major flood and an interesting twist on the relationships. I thought it was particularly interesting that a flash flood in the fall caused the death of the girls and the resulting chaos in the Sheldon marriage — and then a torrential downpour and spring thaw puts everything in motion to set things right again. A full literary circle.

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Because one is never enough

Also known by it’s alternate title: Using the Word “Challenge” So Often That It Loses All Meaning

Yes, I found a reading challenge. And then another. And another. Actually I found an entire blog dedicated solely to finding and posting about reading challenges. How cool is that? Now I don’t have to search Technorati or Google or anything. One stop shopping — gotta love that! Thank you, Wendy!

I skimmed through the pages of Wendy’s blog to find upcoming reading challenges that piqued my interest. I decided to try something a little different this time around and stay away from the (oxymoron alert!) easy challenges. I needed something that was going to push me a little more than simply “read however many books you want, whenever you want, make a list/don’t make a list, whatever makes you happy” for rules. Those are great for people more disciplined about reading than I — but I need more of a push sometimes. So I decided to go for the ‘theme’ challenges this time around.

Here are the reading challenges I’ve chosen, their rules (and while none of them are difficult, they do tend to make book selection a little harder), and my reading lists so far. I’ve noted any books that are cross-referenced between challenges:

Challenge 1: Seafaring Challenge
Dates: November 1, 2007 – January 31, 2008
Challenge Host: Christina of I Heart Paperbacks
Rules: Depending on the number of books you read, you can achieve different ‘ranks’. The highest rank is Admiral and I intend to go for it! All I have to do is read four books, any length, any genre, that have a nautical theme.
My Picks:

  1. Sailing Alone Around the World, Joshua Slocum (memoir) Cross-referenced on In Their Shoes Challenge
  2. The Sea Wolf, by Jack London (fiction)
  3. Sway of the Grand Saloon: A Social History of the North Atlantic, by John Malcolm Brinnin (fiction)
  4. The Last Run, by Todd Lewan (non-fiction)

Challenge 2: Numbers Challenge
Dates: January 1, 2008 – Jun 1, 2008
Challenge Host: Callista of SMS Book Reviews
Rules: Read 5 books whose titles have a number in them. You can choose up to three that are on lists for other challenges. So two of the choices must not be on any other list.
My Picks (I decided to be cute and pick the numbers 1-5):

  1. One Dangerous Lady, by Jane Stanton Hitchcock (fiction)
  2. Between Two Worlds: Escape from Tyranny: Growing Up In the Shadow of Saddam, by Zainab Salbi (memoir) Cross-referenced on In Their Shoes Challenge
  3. Cocktails for Three, by Madeleine Wickham (fiction)
  4. Four Sisters of Hofei: A History, by Annping Chin (non-fiction)
  5. Table for Five, by Susan Wiggs (fiction)

Challenge 3: In Their Shoes Challenge
Dates: January 1, 2008 – December 31, 2008
Challenge Host: N.Vasillis of 1130V
Rules: Read any number of books but they must all be either a memoir, biography, or autobiography. They can be cross-referenced with other challenges and can be re-reads, if you choose.
My Picks (I believe they all fall in the memoir category):

  1. Sailing Alone Around the World, Joshua Slocum Cross-referenced on Seafaring Challenge
  2. Between Two Worlds: Escape from Tyranny: Growing Up In the Shadow of Saddam, by Zainab Salbi Cross-referenced on Numbers Challenge
  3. Angela’s Ashes, a Memoir, by Frank McCourt
  4. Life so Far: A Memoir, by Betty Friedan
  5. Jokes My Father Never Taught Me, by Rain Pryor

I found all these books just this morning on BN.com. Two of them were $6.98 and they were the most expensive of the lot. I love bargain books!

I can’t say I’ve ever actively pursued books with a nautical theme. In fact, I don’t ever really remember reading one, at least not for that reason. If nothing else, I may find new authors that I enjoy and be able to add to my ever-growing library. And I always enjoy a good memoir or biography so ‘having’ to select a few more to add to my collection is always a bonus.

As you can see, the first of these challenges begins in November. That gives me plenty of time to wrap up the two books I need to complete my 30 books in 2007…and scavenge some local used bookstores for additional titles to add to the challenge lists. (That is the goal for next Saturday, barring any nasty weather or work-related snafus.) Now, I just have to go back and let all these gracious challenge-hosts know that I’m joining! Oh, yes, and finish my other reading!

The lecture

I was on the receiving end of ‘the lecture’ last night. Again.

Life is too short. You work too hard, too much. When is the last time you did something fun, just for yourself? And I mean, without having to login and ‘check on things’? This is ridiculous. You are mentally exhausted most of the time. Life is too short, I’m telling you. Is this really how you want to spend it?

I hear you. I understand what you’re telling me. Life is short. Life should be fun. I should work to live, not live to work.

I get it.

But life is also full of responsibilities and increasing demands. Life is, although you continually fail to mention this little fact, expensive.

But I hear you. I honestly do.

Friday Five, #10

1. I’ve been really bad at keeping up with my reading lately. I would like to blame work (because it does seem to have its grubby paws on most of my free time) but I can’t. I’m just not reading.

2. So, even though I didn’t do too well on my Spring Reading Challenge, I’m considering entering another. There are several starting here shortly and I am just going to jump on board. Do you have any to suggest?

3. I have only two books left to fulfill my resolution of reading 30 books this year and it would be nice to finish with a few extras. And I am going to really push myself next year. There is no reason I shouldn’t have finished the 30 books back in June, if I had carried my momentum through from the first of the year. What a slacker!

4. And I shouldn’t have mentioned resolutions because now I’m thinking about New Year’s, which is causing me to think about Christmas…

5. Is it too early to be dreading the holidays? Yes? Guess again.

Word of the day

To the person who misrepresented themselves as having ambition:

Word: am·bi·tion
-noun pronunciation [am-bish-uhn]

Definition: an earnest desire for some type of achievement or distinction, as power, honor, fame, or wealth, and the willingness to strive for its attainment.

Please note that ambition has two qualifications. Not only must you possess an earnest desire but you must also have a willingness to strive. These are important distinctions.

Thinking that you are better than everyone else, and therefore, deserve better is not ambition. That is arrogance. Just flip a few more pages in the dictionary. You’ll find it.